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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> I’m a new poster here but I have a bit of a situation arising.My sis > and niece live in the same house hold as I do.The problem is that my > niece has the confidence to believe she can get away with whatever she > chooses. > Ok, the real question is who’s house is it? Do you share? Is it your house > and she lives with you, or her house and you live with her? > Get too pushy with the child, and you will lose your home if it’s her house > and you live with her. >She’ll tell me to go away if I’m in a room.And If I choose to > reprimand the most fateful of words is ”You’re not the boss” Or ”You > can’t curse or hit me”. > Your niece sound like an alternately spoiled and neglected girl. As her > uncle, and older relative, yes. She has to respect your authority.
Does Unc show her respect? That could have part to do with it. > How to do it? Grow a spine. Get up, hold the child and walk her to her room > for a time-out when she misbehaves.
I’m sorry. But thats not his place. But mother should be doing something. > If her mother objects, stand up to her. Inform her that the child is > required to behave in a civil manner. If she doesn’t she gets a time out.
Once again, not his place. Not his child. Its simple, show the child respect. And if that doesnt work, then he needs to get out or kick them out. Which ever it is. >I know it sounds immature. > Not at all. These two hoodlums ran through one man already. Don’t be number > two.
That I woud tend to agree with. Mrs. P
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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> > I’m a new poster here but I have a bit of a situation arising.My sis > >and niece live in the same house hold as I do.The problem is that my > >niece has the confidence to believe she can get away with whatever she > >chooses.She’ll tell me to go away if I’m in a room.And If I choose to > >reprimand the most fateful of words is ”You’re not the boss” Or ”You > >can’t curse or hit me”.I know it sounds immature. > Yes, you do sound immature. A 7-y.o. gives you some lip and you > can’t hack it? Her family is tearing itself apart and you think she > should be a little angel? > It sounds to me as if this whole family has a habit of running away instead > of solving problems as they arrise.
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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> I’m a new poster here but I have a bit of a situation arising.My sis > and niece live in the same house hold as I do.The problem is that my > niece has the confidence to believe she can get away with whatever she > chooses. > She can. Others can, your housemates can. They are your equals. If you > don’t like who you live with then move away, find a studio and pay too > much! > She’ll tell me to go away if I’m in a room.And If I choose to > reprimand the most fateful of words is ”You’re not the boss” Or ”You > can’t curse or hit me”. > You can curse all you want, but you have to get out of HER room or HER > space. The law supports her in this. > I know it sounds immature. > No, YOU sound immature, and you don’t leave a space or two after your > fucking periods like literate people do either!
Geez! One thing I cant stand is to see someone point out spelling/typing errors. Its so irrelevent. WHO CARES! The OP is not writing a book. I have seen worse errors in the news paper! These minor things do not need to be pointed out. Its not important! Mrs. P
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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> > I’m a new poster here but I have a bit of a situation arising.My sis > >and niece live in the same house hold as I do.The problem is that my > >niece has the confidence to believe she can get away with whatever she > >chooses.She’ll tell me to go away if I’m in a room.And If I choose to > >reprimand the most fateful of words is ”You’re not the boss” Or ”You > >can’t curse or hit me”.I know it sounds immature. > Yes, you do sound immature. A 7-y.o. gives you some lip and you > can’t hack it? Her family is tearing itself apart and you think she > should be a little angel? > I dont think she sounds immature. She just sounds frustrated with the > disrespect that is going on. And I wouldnt say the child is just "giving > her a little lip" The child obviously had an attitude for whatever reason. > The child DOES NOT have to be an angel. Does not even have to like her. > But should show respect. The spitting thing is totally uncalled for. > The question is, does she show the child any respect? If not, well then, > this child wont show her any. > Mrs. P
Oooops. Sorry, didnt mean to keep saying "She". Habbit. Mrs. P
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>> I know it sounds immature. >No, YOU sound immature, and you don’t leave a space or two after your >fucking periods like literate people do either!
ROTFLOL!
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> >She’ll tell me to go away if I’m in a room.And If I choose to > reprimand the most fateful of words is ”You’re not the boss” Or ”You > can’t curse or hit me”. > Your niece sound like an alternately spoiled and neglected girl. As her > uncle, and older relative, yes. She has to respect your authority.
NO SHE DOESN’T!! She just has to say you wanted her to suck your willy and you’re off to Bubba the Butt-pirate land!! And if your sister gets tired of you all she has to do is teach her that!! > How to do it? Grow a spine. Get up, hold the child and walk her to her room > for a time-out when she misbehaves.
And then pack for prison. Light. > If her mother objects, stand up to her. Inform her that the child is > required to behave in a civil manner. If she doesn’t she gets a time out.
Then she calls the cops. >I know it sounds immature. > Not at all. These two hoodlums ran through one man already. Don’t be number > two.
Get out, or get smart and shut up while you’re behind!! This woman has just had absolutely enough crap out of one guy, and you’re just one more, so you’d better be fucking careful what crap you pull!! As usual, you’re Elaine the Insane. Steve
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> I’m a new poster here but I have a bit of a situation arising.My sis >and niece live in the same house hold as I do.The problem is that my >niece has the confidence to believe she can get away with whatever she >chooses.She’ll tell me to go away if I’m in a room.And If I choose to >reprimand the most fateful of words is ”You’re not the boss” Or ”You >can’t curse or hit me”.I know it sounds immature. > Yes, you do sound immature. A 7-y.o. gives you some lip and you > can’t hack it? Her family is tearing itself apart and you think she > should be a little angel?
I dont think she sounds immature. She just sounds frustrated with the disrespect that is going on. And I wouldnt say the child is just "giving her a little lip" The child obviously had an attitude for whatever reason. The child DOES NOT have to be an angel. Does not even have to like her. But should show respect. The spitting thing is totally uncalled for. The question is, does she show the child any respect? If not, well then, this child wont show her any. Mrs. P
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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->> I would say for you to leave asap and live your own life >> without these problems that are not yours, and for the >> mother and her daughter to both get counselling. >Except if you’re a hunter. Then you’re the lowest form of >life on the planet. > <snicker> got some pitbull in your bloodline, Jack? > i think we should send Pat some Bambi steaks so she knows what > she’s missing 
LOL
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> Some guidance from her uncle might be the only discipline this child will > ever receive.
Till he goes to jail for it. Steve
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>> I would say for you to leave asap and live your own life > without these problems that are not yours, and for the > mother and her daughter to both get counselling. >Except if you’re a hunter. Then you’re the lowest form of >life on the planet.
<snicker> got some pitbull in your bloodline, Jack? i think we should send Pat some Bambi steaks so she knows what she’s missing lee —
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